Interview with Danielle Benzon: How Connection, Community & Coaching Help Us Grow

Hey, everybody.

Are you having a great day?

Yes.

Oh no, you're not.

It's okay.

I got you.

I'm Tif Loeffler.

Welcome to Positively Yours.

I'm going to share Tif's tips, techniques, and

a little bit of magic to help you

up level and have a great day every

day.

Are you ready to get started?

Yeah.

Oh, you're not?

That's okay.

I still got you.

Let's go.

Oh my gosh, everybody.

I am so excited.

Because I have a guest today.

I love interviewing people.

I love bringing people to other people.

I love being a connector.

That's one of the ways to have a

great day for me is to connect with

people.

It's just the best.

Now, moving forward, I have made the executive

decision that I would like to have a

top Tif tip for having a great day

at the beginning of each podcast episode.

Today's is one that is a personal favorite.

I call it a celestial service announcement because

when it rains, it pours and I'm talking

about water.

So Tif's top tip for having a great

day is to make sure that you stay

hydrated.

There are many schools of thought.

Some people say you have to have eight

glasses of water.

Some people say just drink whatever you're thirsty.

I'm feeling slightly parched.

I am actually going to take a sip

of water right now.

And if you have a glass, I raise

this to you and we can have a

sip of water together.

And I just think it's important to make

sure that you have a glass of water

with you throughout the day.

You certainly don't want to be dehydrated.

That is no way to have a great

day.

So to recap, water is awesome.

We are mostly made of water.

We need to have some water.

And I have this, I think this is

very cute.

I heard this from a doctor and she

said, no matter what happens with the rest

of the day, I know I had a

great day.

She actually said this because I had a

glass of water as soon as I got

up in the morning.

And I thought that was great.

So this is even a tip on how

to start your day off.

Great is to no matter what, just take

a glass of water, throw that thing down.

You're going to feel great.

And throughout the rest of the day, you

can just say, look, no matter what, I

had that glass of water.

Remember, it's also nice to have a little

prompt that you can continually go back to

and feel good about and celebrate because in

season two, I am so excited that I

am going to have so many more tips,

so many ideas of how a great day

can be created.

And yet sometimes autopilot is nice too.

When you're just wait, I didn't even realize

I'm having a great day.

Ooh, yes I am.

Now for me, I have really enjoyed looking

at how to have a great day through

the lens of this podcast experience.

So just a moment, I am going to

bring on my very first guest and this

woman is near and dear to my heart.

She is absolutely phenomenal.

Incredible.

Her hair is gorgeous.

Her face is too.

I could talk to her for days on

end.

I know I'm building this up, but do

you know why it is so important when

you are having a great day to be

able to share it with someone and for

a long time, it was hard for me

to have a great day because I didn't,

I had, I have friends, I have lots

of friends and I'm very lucky, I have

lots of acquaintances.

I have loving family.

And yet once in a while you need

that special someone, you need a mentor, you

need a coach, you need a professional, you

need someone who really can guide you.

And I was so blessed and honored to

be asked to be a part of the

Inspired Speaker Network.

And so without further ado, I simply must

bring her onto the stage.

The incredible, the incomparable Danielle Benzon of the

Inspired Speaker Academy, Danielle, I am so thrilled

that you are here today.

Thank you so much.

Oh, Tif, thank you so much.

I'm absolutely thrilled to be here today.

And you are one of my favorite client

friends that I get to call a client

friend, because sometimes you have friends and sometimes

you have clients and sometimes you get lucky

and one person gets to be both and

you are definitely one of those and thank

you so much for having me here.

I'm honored.

It is my pleasure.

Now, here's what I want to talk about

with you, because I really love to talk

about things through the lens of being a

woman in business and what I was so

appreciative of, this was one day and everybody,

I might take better notes in the future,

but I just go into the way back

machine that there was a day that Danielle

said, Hey Tif, can we have a chat?

I want to bring something up.

I want to see what you think.

And here's the cool part.

Because in business, I've heard a lot of

no, like, and trust.

Okay.

It's just, you need to know someone like

someone trust someone.

And the great part about Danielle is that

of course I know her.

Do I like her?

Absolutely.

And trust her implicitly in ways I, I

didn't even know at the time, but I

said, sure, let's hop on a call.

And she suggested that we work together.

And here's why I want to bring this

up and why Danielle, and I'll give you

a word edgewise in a little bit, but

I was just so excited.

Because here's the deal.

I was ready for some change in my

life, in my business.

And there's a saying that when the student

is ready, the teacher appears.

And Danielle appeared as if she dropped down

from the heavens.

And there was the, and she said, look,

I just, I, I would love to work

with you.

I think I can, you know, I can

help you with this, this, and this, and

what do you think?

And here's what I wanted to share about

that.

Also.

In the past, I would have immediately, my

mind would have gone to, yeah, but how

much is it going to cost?

Because I had such a low self-esteem

on the mindset of could I actually afford

things and is it really going to work

out this time, but here's where I want

to give us all that inspired moment.

And I'm sharing it because it was so

wonderful to have that.

I call it, you know, once in a

lifetime moment and not just for that moment.

And it wasn't just once, but it's kind

of convoluted, but it was just, you know

what, the timing was great.

Maybe I'm going to say great timing.

It was great timing.

And there are going to be moments in

your life where you get to connect with

someone and it is great timing.

And yes, you might think, okay, I don't

know how I'm going to be able to

afford this and my goal, and you know

what?

It's usually not about money.

It's about time.

And if it's not about time, it's about

that self-worth, that esteem.

Can I actually do it?

And yes, finances can play a part.

And when someone offers you this cool thing

that you could do together and you have

that moment where it is either yes, or

it's, I just can't, it's just a no.

And the best part about this was I

was all, I was all yes.

And there wasn't hesitation.

If there was any doubt, well, no, there

was no doubt.

I just wanted to say yes.

And so Danielle, I wanted to thank you

so much.

The reason I also thank you is because

you didn't know what you didn't know about

my circumstances at the time.

And you, I feel we're taking a stand

for my greatness and wanted to offer something

and just see what happens.

And really it's not what it's all about.

And I was able to say yes.

And I was so glad I said yes.

And now asking you, do you, I, you

know, it's just kind of fun.

I don't mean to put you on the

spotlight.

Do you remember like, you know, like, Ooh,

I wonder like, Ooh, maybe she's ready to

work with me.

And because we had just kind of recently

been reconnected, we had known each other for

a while, just hadn't seen each other.

Then all of a sudden I saw you

again.

I was like, this is awesome.

And then we're talking and then the offer.

And I'm like, yes.

So what, what did you have?

Do you have anything to, to comment on

that once in a lifetime, but maybe it's

not once in a lifetime, but it's the

great moment.

It's just feels great.

You work with someone.

I like that's a great moment.

A great moment.

Yes.

I have something to say about our great

moment.

I definitely, uh, I I'm not one to

just go out and solicit my services.

That's not really my style.

I don't do cold calls.

I don't do that kind of thing.

And we, we did know each other and

we had connected and I only do that.

I don't do it very often.

I only do it with people I really

like.

I'm like, Oh, I really like this person.

I really like to work with them and

people who have indicated to me that they

have a problem that I could solve.

So you may not have said it to

me directly, but at some point in our

conversation, like in a networking group or something,

you'd said something about wanting to improve your

speaking skills, or you'd said something about.

You said something that made my ears go,

Oh, Oh, maybe I can help.

So it wasn't just that I was like,

Oh, I'm going to call everyone on the

networking group.

It wasn't like that at all.

That is not how I work.

Tif and I had a connection.

I already knew that I loved you just

yourself and that we'd, we'd be a good

fit to work with each other.

Cause I loved your energy.

And then you said something that made me

think, Oh, Tif is working on something.

She has a goal that I help people

with.

Maybe she'd be interested.

It doesn't hurt to ask.

And so that was my attitude going in.

I wasn't like, Oh, I need to make

a sale or I don't network that way

at all.

And I seldom approach people from networking groups

with my services, but she had mentioned it.

I knew we vibed really well.

And I thought, you know, what's the worst

that can happen?

What's it can happen if she says no,

and we have a great conversation.

So, you know, there's really no, there's no

lose in that.

So I thought, why not just try it?

And I do, I'm very careful about, because

my services are extremely high touch.

I spend a lot of time with my

clients.

I am very careful who I offer, who

I make offers to because we have to

be a good fit.

It's, it's like choosing, choosing a speaking coach,

choosing any sort of coach.

It's kind of the same as choosing a

therapist or anything else.

You have to get along.

And it's very much about the relationship.

So we already had a good relationship.

So it was a lot easier for me.

Oh, I am so glad to hear you

say that.

And I love that you brought that up

because I do want to let people know

that you're in business.

You have a service to offer.

You have things to give people.

It is everything right and great to offer

that to people when the moment presents itself.

And I just think that's so important.

And what I also love it, and there's

just like so much flowing in my head

right now that I wanted to ask you,

but I will say this.

The best part about, well, there's so many

parts, but one of them is that, yes,

Danielle, thank you for bringing up the high

touch.

It is well worth the investment for me

to be your client because I appreciate how

much you give and it is so appreciated.

And I couldn't thank you enough, especially in

the next part that I want to talk

about, but especially that there, there are people,

I've heard this said about like a coach

is like a professional friend.

And I thought that was kind of cute.

And I like that because a coach, you

do need to, you, you do like someone

who's a friend, but you also need someone

who's going to guide you in a way

that they, they're just, they're seeing how you

need that.

And I appreciate in the initial conversations.

And as we were developing this relationship and

how you were helping me and joining your,

your course for speaking, which by the way

is super awesome.

And we just wrapped up, which, okay.

I'm only going to do this just for

a moment, because here's the great part.

When you work with someone, there's always a

way to continue.

We only wrapped up part one.

We only wrapped up part one.

Okay, good.

All right.

That's it.

Yeah.

Okay.

Thank you.

There's more.

Because if there's one thing I would also

offer is just a little tidbit for someone.

It's just to make sure that when you

have the end of a certain segment in

your goods or services, there are some of

us that are squishy marshmallows.

And when you go, okay, yep, that's it.

We're done.

We're just like, oh.

That not might be what you mean, but

little did I know that not only were

we engaging in this amazing speaking course, but

then Danielle do tell, what did you drop

into my lap?

That was a gift that I was not

expecting.

And it was about this big and I

could barely see over the edge of it.

And it had to do with the podcast.

Oh, I don't know.

What gift did I give you?

Oh yes.

Well, again, I mean, you say it's a

gift.

I mean, it's a product.

We are again, working together.

So it was an opportunity, but it was

a special opportunity because launching this network, I

needed to choose who I was going to

launch with.

You can't launch a network all by yourself.

Well, you can, but then you're the only

person on the podcast.

Well, that's really embarrassing.

So I needed to find people that I

liked that I wanted to launch with and,

you know, work with and figure it out

together with, because this is an adventure for

me too.

So I, yeah, I just, I went through

my clients who I knew were interested in

podcasting.

I went through my clients who I knew

should be doing a podcast, even if they

hadn't mentioned it.

And also friends and people that I knew,

and I made a short list of, I

think, I think I made a short list

of seven and five said yes.

So that was pretty amazing.

And Tif was definitely on the, well, obviously

you were on the short list, but you

were right up there, right up, right up

there on the short list.

Because we'd already, and we'd already kind of,

we'd had a prototype already because we did

a couple of live streams because I was

thinking, damn, I got to get Tif doing

a podcast and she wasn't taking any of

my hints.

So, so what I did instead was I

invited her to do a few lives with

me on LinkedIn.

And we had such a great time doing

that.

I thought that would make it an easier,

an easier sell for you to do your

own podcast now, because you could tell that

you could do it.

I am chuckling, but I want to, if

I had a drink of water and do

the spit take, because that is the first

time I have heard you say that.

Like, that's why we did the lives on

LinkedIn.

I thought they were so great.

And then we didn't do them anymore.

And I was all like, I'm so sad.

Well, we're not doing them anymore.

Then she brought this opportunity again, another once

in a lifetime.

That's why it's like, is it once in

a lifetime?

It's whatever that opportunity happens in your lifetime.

You just feel it feels right.

And it feels great.

And I don't know if I had mentioned

to you at some point, I did want

to actually have a podcast, but I didn't

know what that entailed.

But guess what I thought it entailed.

I thought it entailed a lot of stuff

I don't know how to do.

So I don't know if I can do

it.

Probably can't do a podcast.

And I tried before and it was just

too hard.

And then I just didn't do it.

And it's not that I gave up on

it, but it was certainly in the back

burner.

And then you just brought it right to

the front and said, and now that as

we're talking, I, of course, we'll try to

incorporate why I feel this is how we

have a great day.

You know how to have that positively great

day.

Well, here's the deal.

It's really nice to have consistent times with

people who are helping you uplevel, grow, stretch.

Maybe there's a little bit of struggle.

Maybe there's a little bit of, I don't

know if I could do this.

Someone who has your back and Danielle, I

can tell you absolutely has her clients back.

Like you go to bat, you are there

in ways that I, I just, I still,

to this day, I'm so impressed with and

I really appreciate it.

And it just means so much.

And the only reason that I, I can't

tear up at this moment is because I

just start bawling.

And then the whole rest of this would

be like, I love you so much, but

it's true because having a great day, truly,

I just feel it's the key of C

and I like saying that.

Cause I kind of just thought of that

during the season one, but I really like

it.

And for me, the key of C, the

one is connection.

You want to be connected to your great

day.

If you want to be connected with people

who help you stay connected to having a

great day.

And once in a while, I'll admit Danielle

has told me some things gently guided me

or flat out said things.

And I'm like, I think one of my

favorites I'd like to share with everybody.

And when she you've said, you've got to

make a decision because I up until a

certain point, I was just so awfully, I

love waffles, but you should eat them.

You shouldn't be them.

Okay.

I should not be a waffle where I'm

like, maybe this, maybe that.

And thank you, Danielle.

Okay.

Just it's saying, taking that declaration, make a

decision.

You can always change it, but you have

to make a decision.

It's been a very long time since someone

has said that to me.

And you said it in a way that

was direct and loving and all the things.

And I'm so grateful that I, I just

thought, okay, I will start to take direction.

Okay.

I'm going to start to make decisions.

And I appreciate that.

I would, I would love to jump in

here if that's okay, please, please.

Yeah.

Because you said something a little, a little

while back, I'm going to backtrack a tiny

bit.

You said something about how, you know, we

have a lot of fun together and, but

it's also challenging.

Yeah.

And for me, I think that is essential.

It is really difficult to master any sort

of skill if it's always hard, you know,

because you're not going to do it because

it's unpleasant.

It's not fun.

Why would you do it more?

Why would you do it?

So creating as much fun and as much

play in a process that is inherently difficult,

like public speaking or inherently scary, I think

that's where the magic happens.

Because if we're not having fun, if we're

not enjoying the process, if we don't have

each other's back and we're not, we're not

giggling and you know, all that stuff, doing

the difficult stuff becomes impossible.

So having that mix of levity, it doesn't

make, it doesn't undermine it.

It's not about distracting from the pain.

It's about allowing yourself to embrace the pain

through laughter.

You know, we're humans.

We do this very human thing where we

like to mix emotions together.

And there's a very big difference between playing

the fool to distract from the lesson and

using the pain or the challenge of the

lesson to create fun and to create joy

and silliness and play.

And those are two very, very different things.

And you do this very well, Tif.

And I think this is extremely important.

And there was something else I wanted to

say.

Ah, oh, and as a theatre kid, I

really feel this and especially doing this podcast

network because we did this whole thing in

a month.

And it was a challenge.

It was a challenge for all of us.

It was especially a challenge for James and

I to, we had many sleepless nights getting

deadlines, but it was so fun.

It was so much fun because we had

this deadline, we're all coming together.

It wasn't, you know, it's not brain surgery.

If we don't hit the deadline, no one

dies.

So there was that.

But also we all really wanted to hit

it because we were so close.

And the way the group came together, that,

that reminded me of my theatre kid days

when you're all, you're like, oh, we've got,

we've got a week to put this production

on and the costumes aren't ready and the

lights aren't ready.

And I don't know my lines.

And how's this all going to happen?

And then somehow it just magically all comes

together at the last minute.

And somehow on opening night, everything is amazing.

And it kind of felt the same way.

This, this podcast launch, this network launch rather,

the network launch felt like putting on a

play.

And that opening night was amazing.

And it just, it gave me something special.

So thank you for being part of that,

Tif.

And for everyone who was part of it,

I'm indebted to you all.

I thank you so much because I love

to be a part of this network and

yours is the Inspired Speaker podcast.

I hope I'm saying that right.

Did I get it right?

And we also have Surfing Your Edge and

The Guiding Parent and Awakening Women on the

Rise and also Evolving with Elle.

So I have to make sure that in

the notes, everybody's podcasts are in there because

I am so excited for all of us.

They want to make sure that right away

I was like, yes, we are absolutely going

to promote because it's so important.

Because if I were to have one more

point about this, that I really appreciate about

working with Danielle and spoiler alert, I'm going

to be talking with Danielle throughout season two,

because there's so many other things that I

want to talk to her about.

And we just can't have it in one

episode.

So season two is going to be a

lot of, we need a whole season and

that's what's happening.

I'm so excited.

And this is a part of that connection,

that group, that I'm going to say sisterhood,

that you helped us create all of the

ladies with our podcasts.

And I'm just so grateful because talk about

setting ourselves up to have great days.

I was pretty impressed that we got it

together when we did.

Also again, Danielle, I think it was so

awesome and funny when later on you told

us, you said, guess what?

It was an arbitrary date that I picked

because we just had to pick a date.

Otherwise, two years from now, we can still

be talking about it.

And there was no time for talk.

The world needs us now.

And we did this together.

And speaking of, you know, we're, as I'm

wrapping up this season with you, which is

awesome.

And now season two will be together, be

even more awesome.

We are still on a journey.

Together, all of us in our different podcasts.

And I think that's so tremendous.

And we have this, we have this bond

now.

We have this energy that is helping us

to sustain those, those great days, which I

love.

I'm just so excited because I have things

to look forward to.

And, and that's just means a lot to

me.

Thank you.

And that was something surprising everybody.

If I were to say, it's really fun

to have surprises in your, in your having

a great day means having some surprises.

And one of the surprises for me was,

wow, they're going to be a part of

my future great days.

And this is an awesome thing.

And I'm really excited.

And it gives me a boldness and feeling

of responsibility.

And it feels really great.

Yeah.

And I do think that that's really important.

I think community as part of having a

great day, as part of your, as part

of your system.

You know, that you maintain to help you

to continue to have a great day.

Cause it doesn't happen by accident.

It's definitely from knowing Tif, I have learned

many things about having a great day.

And one of the things that I've learned

is that you design it and you plan

for it.

And that is one of the things that

you need to curate is a community because

when you are alone and something bad happens,

the only person who can pull you out

of it is yourself and you're already having

a bad day.

So that's much harder to do.

Whereas if you have a group of people,

when you get knocked down, you can just

call someone and say, Hey, just help me

out.

I'm not having a great day.

And just that connection is sometimes enough, but

often they have something wonderful to say as

well.

And this group has really, oh, you have

supported each other in a way that I

didn't imagine.

It was a surprise to me, but it's

so exciting because I did, I had this

fantasy about creating this community and everyone's going

to be together.

And I do think that the short timeline

was a huge part of that.

I don't think it'd be as close as

you are if I'd given you more time.

So I do think that it was a

very smart but manipulative decision on my part

to create our random launch date.

But also you have all, you all took

the challenge, you all stepped up and not

only stepped up for yourselves, but you stepped

up for each other.

And the amount of support and love I

have seen in this group, it gives me

hope for humanity, you know?

I feel that.

I do.

Yeah.

And I thank you because, well, I love

that you talked about manipulation.

My boyfriend likes to say it's positive manipulation.

Okay.

But also what a savvy business move.

I love it.

And also understanding the psychology of the human

brain, it was fantastic.

We all, it wasn't trial by fire though.

It was just, it was a short timeframe,

but you also gave us the tools and

you gave us your support and you gave

us a framework, a blueprint.

And that is so wonderful because you know

what?

You can have your organic great days, the

days that just pop up.

There's just like, yep, it's just happening, which

is great.

But again, sometimes it's a challenge to rely

on that, especially when you have a great

project you're working on, like helping launch a

podcast network.

And so that's where the planning and the

support come in.

And I just am so delighted that we've

had some time together.

Is there, is there anything else that you

would like to add about the experience of

launching this network?

Because I think this is tremendous that you

are helping so many people have great days,

not just for us who have been a

part of this first level launch, the initial

launch, but also all the people who are

going to be listening to our podcast.

I'm just so excited.

People are already listening.

It's very exciting.

I know people are listening to us speak

right now.

Isn't that crazy?

Oh, right.

Yeah, no, I do think it was, it

was a really surprising experience.

I learned so much.

I think we all grew a lot over

the last month.

I definitely grew in ways I wasn't expecting.

I learned things that I don't think I

would have learned if I hadn't put myself

under pressure.

But it was, it was wonderful because typically

when I give myself projects, I put myself

under way too much pressure and I don't

have enough support and I burn out and

I collapse.

And this was the first time in a

long time that I've had enough support that

the goals were realistic.

There was a push, but they were realistic.

And also if we didn't reach them, I

had a backup plan as well.

So there was also that.

So that was nice.

I didn't want to use the backup plan

for pride, but there was one, so it

was okay.

And there were just so many things that

came together magically that I didn't anticipate.

But also the big gift was that the

five of you kind of dived in blind

with me.

I said, Hey, I want to do this

thing.

I've never done it before.

I have a good idea of what I'm

doing, but I know that I only know

50%.

You know, you know, you don't know what

you don't know.

And I was very aware that I didn't

know what I didn't know going in.

I think I planned well, but you never

know.

I'm anticipating a lot of challenges, unforeseen challenges

along the way.

This is a big experiment.

Would you like to come and be guinea

pigs essentially with me?

And you were all so keen.

It was so fun to experiment and to

be allowed to be messy and to be

allowed to not know what I was doing

and to go like, Hey, I'm going to

figure it out.

I know what our goal is.

I know at least 50% of the

pieces.

We'll figure out the other pieces on the

way.

As long as we keep communicating, as long

as everyone stays flexible and stays positive, we'll

get this done.

And it was such a wonderful experience because

that need to be perfect and to know

everything before you start, that's a very strong

temptation.

And I very purposefully, like Christine Goad of

Surfing the Edge says, you know, you got

to just sometimes you just got to throw

yourself into the deep end and see what

happens.

And I am not usually one who does

that kind of thing, especially with my speakers,

because I don't believe in shocking the nervous

system.

But this wasn't that.

This wasn't throwing us into the deep end.

It was just, I've got a challenge.

It's a realistic, it's a big challenge, but

it's a realistic challenge.

And I just want to be messy and

experiment and see how far we get.

And you all came with me and we

got way further than I thought we would.

And it was so cool.

And I'm so stoked.

I am too.

And I, I so appreciate that you offered

us an adventure.

And having a great day is all about

having adventures.

So you don't have to know all the

parts of this adventure.

Just know that you're going on one and

just be open to the possibilities of this

adventure, which we did.

And here we are.

And I am so excited to say that

I'm wrapping up season one and now season

two is on the horizon.

And thank you for being a part of

that and joining me.

And I just I can't thank you enough.

And, and to Wendy and Elle and Tammy

and her daughter.

And it's just been, it's just been such

a, and Christine.

And what I appreciate is that.

Oh, cause Christine does surf on the edge,

right?

Okay.

I just want to make sure that I,

I want to name drop everybody.

Shannon is Tammy's daughter.

And Christine, okay.

Thank you.

Cause I was like, Oh, I just met

Shannon.

It's hard to keep track of everybody.

Well, that's what, and again, here's the best

part.

Like in the past, we've been like, I

can't remember if it's like, no, just go

for it.

Just start name and name.

It's going to come to you.

Thank you, Danielle for, cause I just met

Shannon and it's just so much fun.

And again, adventures continue and having great days

include continuing adventures.

And so that's why I just appreciate that

we are on a continuing adventure.

So although I, I am saying chow for

now to you.

I'm so excited that we're going to, we're

going to pick up where we left off

in season two, and that's going to be

very exciting.

So thank you for being a part of

this journey with me, not only helping me

create my journey, but being a part of

this podcast with me because you're outstanding and

I love you with all my heart.

Well, you are outstanding and I love you

with all my heart as well.

And I just thought of a really lovely

thing for me to say to say thank

you.

And goodbye is instead of waffling on, I'm

just going to say chow.

I love it.

Thank you, darling.

You are the best.

And I give a big round of applause

to Danielle Benzon.

Yay.

The Inspired Speaker Academy is a great place

to get your speak on telling you.

And the course is great.

And this podcast has been epic.

And I, I wanted to share in, as

I'm wrapping up this, this first season, it

has been so amazing.

I have so appreciated the love and support.

I do want to thank Danielle again, especially

for those moments where those moments that were

many moments where I got to feel like

a VIP rockstar.

I just, I felt both sides.

I felt like the rockstar.

I felt like the VIP behind the, you

know, just, just all the things when you

allow yourself to let someone give you tools

to have a great day, that's really important.

And that's one of the things we're going

to be talking about in season two.

So.

As I try to wrap it up, I

do want to say having a great day

does take a bit of planning and it

can happen organically.

But what I especially appreciate is that when

you allow people in your life that give

you the tools, the opportunity, the openness, it's

really wonderful when you let people into your

life.

So I would just encourage us to just

take a moment and think of someone that

we've let into our life that has helped

us have great days that we, we knew

they could, but in ways we didn't even

think possible.

And right now, yes.

Closing my eyes, thinking of Danielle.

And it is nice to take a pause

and think of someone that you appreciate.

And I appreciate all of you.

And I'm really glad that we are on

an adventure together on learning how to develop

having a great day.