In this episode, Danielle kicks off a new season of industry insights by sharing seven lessons she learned while launching a podcast network and helping new hosts get started. From setting firm deadlines and ditching the script to choosing practical audio equipment, creating flexible content and embracing imperfection, she explores what actually helps podcasters and online speakers connect with their audience.
It’s a practical, candid look at why authenticity, personality, and getting started matter more than polished perfection.
Highlights:
Natural speech includes mistakes, unfinished sentences and unexpected moments. Rather than editing all of that humanity out, let your personality come through. The episode’s central message is that connection and authenticity matter more than sounding polished or robotic.
- Set firm deadlines and stop waiting until you feel ready
- Your audience can always tell when you’re reading
- You don’t need expensive podcast equipment to sound good
- Create content with flexibility rather than chasing one perfect take
- Imperfection is part of what makes people worth listening to
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Danielle Benzon has devoted her life to exploring the expressiveness, agility, and power of the voice-body instrument. Her journey began in classical theatre and took her around the world before she founded the Inspired Speaker Academy. Now she draws on that experience to help speakers, professionals, and business owners to own and embody their message, fall wildly in love with speaking, and transform their nerves so that every word they speak vibrates with purpose, truth, and self-celebration.
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If you're tired of hiding your brilliance behind
Speaker:stage fright, scripts, or playing it safe, then
Speaker:you are in the perfect place.
Speaker:This is the Inspired Speaker Podcast, and I
Speaker:am your host, Danielle Benzon, professional rebel, voice
Speaker:coach, and your guide to speaking with confidence,
Speaker:charisma, and zero BS.
Speaker:Around here, we don't chase perfection.
Speaker:We choose connection.
Speaker:So grab a hot beverage, warm up those
Speaker:vocal cords, and get ready to fall wildly
Speaker:in love with the sound of your voice.
Speaker:Let's get inspired.
Speaker:I have to say, I am really appreciating
Speaker:these six episode seasons that we've been doing
Speaker:on the Inspired Speaker Network.
Speaker:I know that this isn't exactly what Michelle
Speaker:Abraham meant when she said you could do
Speaker:whatever you want and do a season at
Speaker:a time, which is what really involved me
Speaker:on the idea of doing a podcast in
Speaker:the first place.
Speaker:But oh my goodness, I am loving it.
Speaker:I love the freedom of being able to
Speaker:kind of shift focus a little bit every
Speaker:six weeks.
Speaker:I love the idea that I could take
Speaker:a break if I wanted to, although to
Speaker:be honest, I don't think I ever will
Speaker:again.
Speaker:But it sparks my creativity and my curiosity
Speaker:in a way that I think thinking about
Speaker:the podcast as one long thing, even a
Speaker:year season, which I know is what most
Speaker:people think of when they think of a
Speaker:season, even a year season would feel very
Speaker:heavy for me and really, oh, how am
Speaker:I going to do the same thing every
Speaker:week for a year?
Speaker:I'm just loving the six-week season idea.
Speaker:So I'm running with it and I apologize
Speaker:if it's not.
Speaker:Do I apologize if it's not normal?
Speaker:I don't.
Speaker:I don't apologize if it's not normal.
Speaker:I'm loving it and I am embracing it.
Speaker:And hey, there's nothing normal about me.
Speaker:So there we go.
Speaker:Today is episode one of season three.
Speaker:We are doing industry insights this season.
Speaker:So as you may have noticed, I launched
Speaker:a podcast network recently or not recently, depending
Speaker:on where you're listening, when you're listening to
Speaker:this, but recently in time right now, as
Speaker:of recording, we launched our network on the
Speaker:4th of August, 2026.
Speaker:And the idea came to me around June,
Speaker:2026.
Speaker:And we did it all in about a
Speaker:month, maybe five weeks.
Speaker:And it was an experience.
Speaker:And during those five weeks, I actually ended
Speaker:up interviewing quite a few people who make
Speaker:money doing podcasts in one way, shape or
Speaker:form.
Speaker:They work with podcasters, they do bookings.
Speaker:I interviewed someone else who is also a
Speaker:producer, a podcast producer.
Speaker:And so I have all these interviews and
Speaker:I wanted to put them together in a
Speaker:season, kind of an intensive educational season for
Speaker:people who are looking to do their own
Speaker:podcasts, not necessarily starting your own network.
Speaker:I'm not sure if I would recommend that
Speaker:to everybody.
Speaker:It is a lot of work depending on
Speaker:how you want to do it.
Speaker:But definitely, I think having a podcast is
Speaker:such an amazing machine for your business, for
Speaker:your soul, for your message.
Speaker:There are so many wonderful things that come
Speaker:out of it.
Speaker:And yes, I know that a lot of
Speaker:people have podcasts now compared to in the
Speaker:old days, everybody and a dog has their
Speaker:own podcast now.
Speaker:And there's such a low barrier to entry,
Speaker:but that is a wonderful thing.
Speaker:Think about what Netflix did for television.
Speaker:Think about podcasts.
Speaker:Anyone can make a podcast.
Speaker:And yes, the production value is going to
Speaker:vary greatly depending on who's doing it and
Speaker:how they're doing it.
Speaker:But the level to entry, the barrier to
Speaker:entry is so low that it is allowing
Speaker:more diverse voices than ever before.
Speaker:And also, it's allowing a kind of equalization
Speaker:of the market in a way that is
Speaker:wonderful because you get to be your unique
Speaker:flavor of you and people get to sort
Speaker:and get to decide who they're listening to.
Speaker:And so, that diversity can really be in
Speaker:your favor.
Speaker:You don't need to be big and flashy
Speaker:and fancy to get a loyal following.
Speaker:You just need to be really specific and
Speaker:really real and maybe, I hope, authentic and
Speaker:kind of niche down.
Speaker:And I don't mean in the kind of
Speaker:traditional way of niching.
Speaker:I work with moms between 40 and 42
Speaker:who have 7.5 kids.
Speaker:A bit of ridiculous niche there.
Speaker:But it doesn't need to be a niche
Speaker:like that.
Speaker:But niche through your values, through your interests,
Speaker:through who you are, through how you show
Speaker:up.
Speaker:And that uniqueness calls to certain people.
Speaker:And that is how we get to decide
Speaker:who we listen to.
Speaker:So, I think it's a fantastic thing.
Speaker:And I am loving running the network.
Speaker:I am enjoying meeting new people.
Speaker:I'm enjoying interviewing folks.
Speaker:I'm loving watching all of the podcasts.
Speaker:I personally watch every single podcast that goes
Speaker:live on my network.
Speaker:And so, I'm loving watching all the other
Speaker:podcast hosts and what they're doing and who
Speaker:they're interviewing.
Speaker:It is so rewarding.
Speaker:And before I share with you all of
Speaker:the interviews that I've done, this won't be
Speaker:all of the interviews.
Speaker:You're going to get five because it's a
Speaker:six-episode season and this first episode is
Speaker:just me.
Speaker:So, you're going to get five of the
Speaker:industry insight interviews that I've done.
Speaker:And then I'll do another one when I
Speaker:have another six.
Speaker:And I'm really excited to share this with
Speaker:you because there are some amazing insights in
Speaker:these interviews that I'm not applying all of
Speaker:them yet to my podcast and to my
Speaker:network.
Speaker:But I have a long to-do list
Speaker:based on these interviews that I am going
Speaker:to be implementing over the next few months.
Speaker:There's so much value in these interviews around
Speaker:what to do as a guest, how to
Speaker:monetize the experience if you're a guest, how
Speaker:to monetize the experience if you're a host,
Speaker:how to build relationships, how to approach people
Speaker:who maybe you're not sure if they would
Speaker:listen to you because they're so experienced and
Speaker:they've got so many followers.
Speaker:There's so much information here.
Speaker:We talk about some tech stuff with Chen
Speaker:There is so much valuable information in this
Speaker:season that I really, really want you to
Speaker:absorb like a sponge.
Speaker:You may have to watch a couple of
Speaker:these episodes over and over and take some
Speaker:extra notes.
Speaker:I know I did.
Speaker:But before we get to that, I just
Speaker:wanted to share a few things that I've
Speaker:learned in launching a podcast network because I
Speaker:have coached now six people launch their podcast,
Speaker:not six people.
Speaker:Well, yeah, Tammy and Shannon are two, so
Speaker:six.
Speaker:Five podcasts, six people.
Speaker:I coached them from zero to running their
Speaker:podcast, knowing what to say.
Speaker:And I was there in the room helping
Speaker:them out in their first episodes.
Speaker:And there are some things that I have
Speaker:learned that are non-negotiable.
Speaker:And I would like to share them with
Speaker:you.
Speaker:If you are thinking of starting a podcast
Speaker:or if you are thinking of expanding your
Speaker:reach and starting to speak as a guest
Speaker:on podcasts or summits, these apply.
Speaker:These rules that I have learned, these lessons
Speaker:that I've learned, apply on any kind of
Speaker:online speaking situation.
Speaker:They even apply sometimes to offline speaking situations,
Speaker:but that is a different genre.
Speaker:So we're going to keep this to podcasting,
Speaker:podcast guesting, podcast hosting, podcast guesting, summits, interviews,
Speaker:online content creation.
Speaker:I'm not a huge kind of TikTok short
Speaker:person, but it might apply to some of
Speaker:those as well.
Speaker:So I've written them down and I have
Speaker:seven.
Speaker:So here we go.
Speaker:The first one is you take as long
Speaker:as you have.
Speaker:We did this whole thing in five weeks
Speaker:and we got it done and I had
Speaker:no idea how we were going to do
Speaker:it.
Speaker:But my theory was if we set ourselves
Speaker:an impossible goal and we didn't hit it,
Speaker:then we just extend it.
Speaker:But I wanted to see if we could
Speaker:do it in five weeks.
Speaker:And I did my best to set us
Speaker:up.
Speaker:We set deadlines.
Speaker:Sometimes we hit them, sometimes we didn't, but
Speaker:we had enough give to hit the final
Speaker:deadline of the launch date, even though we
Speaker:didn't always hit our internal deadlines.
Speaker:Because also when you have six podcasters submitting
Speaker:information, some people are a little bit early
Speaker:and some people are a little bit late,
Speaker:kind of evens out.
Speaker:So what I found was everyone waited until
Speaker:the deadline to submit artwork, music decisions, name
Speaker:decisions, oh my goodness, even afterwards.
Speaker:So I also had to set a time
Speaker:for this is the deadline for making the
Speaker:decision.
Speaker:And then after that, you can change your
Speaker:mind, but only after this time.
Speaker:I had to create deadlines around boundaries around
Speaker:each of those things.
Speaker:Because the thing is, if we are procrastinating,
Speaker:if we are scared, if we are trying
Speaker:to get it perfect, we will take as
Speaker:long as we are given.
Speaker:If I had given those podcasters six months
Speaker:to come up with the name of their
Speaker:podcast and their target audience, it would have
Speaker:taken them six months.
Speaker:If I had given them six weeks, it
Speaker:would have taken them six weeks.
Speaker:It's amazing how we do.
Speaker:We just fill that time.
Speaker:I know there's a name for this.
Speaker:I have forgotten what the name for that
Speaker:is, but I know there's a name for
Speaker:this phenomenon.
Speaker:And that was just really reinforced.
Speaker:So what I would suggest, if you are
Speaker:starting, instead of saying, well, I'll do it
Speaker:when I'm ready, or I'll just do this
Speaker:much, set yourself a deadline.
Speaker:You know what's realistic for you.
Speaker:If you have help, it can be done
Speaker:in a month.
Speaker:But I did a lot of the work.
Speaker:I did a lot of the organizing and
Speaker:reminding and that kind of thing.
Speaker:So you may not be able to do
Speaker:it in a month.
Speaker:But whatever you do, set yourself a deadline
Speaker:and do your darndest to hit it.
Speaker:And then also set yourself a deadline, a
Speaker:point of no return deadline.
Speaker:So maybe you set yourself a deadline of
Speaker:I want to have all my material recorded
Speaker:by this date, and it doesn't get there.
Speaker:And you say, okay, well, this is the
Speaker:launch date.
Speaker:So I have to have everything recorded by
Speaker:that date.
Speaker:And if I don't like it, I can
Speaker:redo it.
Speaker:But I can only redo it after all
Speaker:these other things have been done.
Speaker:So maybe once everything's up and running, and
Speaker:I've got the next season scheduled, then I
Speaker:can go back and fix and edit or
Speaker:I'm going to redo the intro or I'm
Speaker:going to redo the podcast, the episode image,
Speaker:whatever it is that you're not happy with.
Speaker:Don't only give yourself a deadline to complete
Speaker:it, but give yourself a point of no
Speaker:return.
Speaker:I have to submit it no matter how
Speaker:unhappy I am with it.
Speaker:And I can change it later.
Speaker:Everything can be changed later.
Speaker:Everything can be updated later.
Speaker:It's a bit more work sometimes, but usually
Speaker:you can change anything retroactively.
Speaker:So give yourself that done is better than
Speaker:good deadline, because otherwise it will just take
Speaker:forever.
Speaker:And it will just go on and on
Speaker:and on.
Speaker:Number two, I'm looking at my notes.
Speaker:And this is hilarious, because this is number
Speaker:two.
Speaker:We can always tell when you are reading.
Speaker:Always.
Speaker:I don't care how sneaky you think you
Speaker:are.
Speaker:I don't care if your notes are right
Speaker:up there next to your camera.
Speaker:I don't care if you've got one of
Speaker:those fancy teleprompters.
Speaker:We can tell.
Speaker:We can always tell.
Speaker:Even if you're a good reader, sometimes we
Speaker:won't mind.
Speaker:If you're a really good reader, we may
Speaker:not mind that you're reading.
Speaker:If you're really good and you manage to
Speaker:stay connected with us at the same time,
Speaker:we may decide that your connection is so
Speaker:strong that we don't mind that you're reading,
Speaker:but your audience can always tell when you're
Speaker:reading.
Speaker:And I'm talking about audio-only podcasts, too.
Speaker:It's not just about your eyes going left
Speaker:to right.
Speaker:Your vocal tone actually changes.
Speaker:You have a different voice when you are
Speaker:reading compared to when you are speaking.
Speaker:And even if you are reading really well,
Speaker:your voice is different from candid speech.
Speaker:Not necessarily worse.
Speaker:If you're a really good reader, it may
Speaker:not be worse.
Speaker:It may just be different.
Speaker:But it is different and we can hear
Speaker:it.
Speaker:And the more AI tries to take over
Speaker:our jobs and our world, it tries to.
Speaker:It's trying to.
Speaker:It's not trying to.
Speaker:It just is.
Speaker:But the more it is replacing humans, the
Speaker:more that predictable, good reading isn't going to
Speaker:matter anymore because AI could do it.
Speaker:The only thing that makes you different, that
Speaker:makes you separate, that makes you special, that
Speaker:makes you exciting is your candid speech.
Speaker:And the human ear does react differently to
Speaker:that kind of chaos of, I don't know
Speaker:what I'm going to say next.
Speaker:That unscripted, unrehearsed, candid speech sounds different.
Speaker:When you are real and you are raw
Speaker:and you are alive, there is an unpredictability
Speaker:to your speech that cannot be replicated.
Speaker:And that is going to become more and
Speaker:more important as the years go on.
Speaker:So, learn to speak without a script now.
Speaker:And if you're curious about being scriptless, talk
Speaker:to me because that's my speciality.
Speaker:What's number three?
Speaker:Oh, I'm getting old.
Speaker:I can't read that here.
Speaker:Oh, my goodness.
Speaker:In my naivete, just like everybody else, I
Speaker:thought that the best type of mic was
Speaker:a kind of fancy podcaster table mic.
Speaker:This is not true.
Speaker:Well, it's kind of true, but it comes
Speaker:with a caveat.
Speaker:A headset microphone is the best option if
Speaker:you are doing podcasts on a budget.
Speaker:They're cheaper and they don't require a full
Speaker:sound studio in order for them to work.
Speaker:The mic is right next to your mouth,
Speaker:which, okay, can be dangerous.
Speaker:And I do, I'm just going to move
Speaker:mine away from my mouth.
Speaker:Just noticed it's quite close to my mouth
Speaker:now.
Speaker:If it's right in front of your mouth,
Speaker:that can be a real problem because then
Speaker:you catch all the P's and T's and
Speaker:things.
Speaker:So, you do want the microphone to be
Speaker:a bit further away.
Speaker:I actually really love, I've got, ah, where
Speaker:is it?
Speaker:I have one of these little hooky over
Speaker:the ear ones that I really love too.
Speaker:And then the microphone ends up being about
Speaker:halfway down your cheek, which is even better.
Speaker:I love those little wireless ones.
Speaker:They don't always play well with my tech.
Speaker:So, sometimes I just do the wired mic,
Speaker:but a headset mic is your best bet
Speaker:unless you are able to deal with all
Speaker:of the traps that come with a fancy
Speaker:tabletop microphone.
Speaker:So, first off, the fact that it's on
Speaker:your table is a problem because your hands
Speaker:are close to the table and your shirt
Speaker:and your jewelry and all sorts of other
Speaker:things.
Speaker:Your computer fan is closer to the microphone
Speaker:than your mouth.
Speaker:This is a problem because all of that
Speaker:ambient sound gets prioritized over your voice.
Speaker:So, that's the first problem with a tabletop
Speaker:mic.
Speaker:The second problem is, of course, you're probably
Speaker:touching your desk without noticing.
Speaker:You're rustling your notes.
Speaker:Well, hopefully not.
Speaker:Hopefully, you don't have notes.
Speaker:But you're touching things.
Speaker:You're fiddling with things.
Speaker:You hit the microphone occasionally.
Speaker:So many dangers.
Speaker:It's perilous, that desk microphone.
Speaker:Now, if you put it up on a
Speaker:stand above you and you have it coming
Speaker:from above you and towards your mouth, that
Speaker:is, of course, much better.
Speaker:You're much less likely to hit it and
Speaker:you can actually position it in exactly the
Speaker:right place.
Speaker:The danger is still that you are not
Speaker:in a sound booth.
Speaker:You are not necessarily wearing headphones because a
Speaker:lot of people think that they can get
Speaker:away with having a microphone and not headphones.
Speaker:You cannot do this because this microphone is
Speaker:going to pick up anything, any echoes in
Speaker:the room.
Speaker:So, as soon as you have a guest
Speaker:and your sound is coming out of your
Speaker:computer speakers hitting the wall around you, hitting
Speaker:your microphone, all sorts of horrible echoes are
Speaker:going to happen.
Speaker:Zoom does an amazing job of lessening those
Speaker:echoes, but it can only do so much.
Speaker:It's not magic.
Speaker:And I think Riverside actually also has an
Speaker:echo cancellation, but still, it's not magic.
Speaker:And chances are, it's going to ruin your
Speaker:sound.
Speaker:So, even if you have a desk mic
Speaker:or a mic that's hanging over you, if
Speaker:you have a traditional microphone, you still need
Speaker:to wear earphones because the sound of your
Speaker:interviewer, interviewee, the sound of your interviewee, your
Speaker:guest, that needs to come in through your
Speaker:ears and not bounce around the room.
Speaker:So, I know they look cool.
Speaker:And hey, if you want to have one
Speaker:as a prop, go ahead, be my guest.
Speaker:But it's going to look a bit funny
Speaker:if you're wearing headphones and you have one
Speaker:as a prop.
Speaker:That's going to look a bit weird.
Speaker:But please, before you go out and invest
Speaker:a fortune in one of these fancy microphones,
Speaker:please be aware the room that you are
Speaker:in is much more important to your sound
Speaker:quality than your microphone.
Speaker:If you have just one of these cheap
Speaker:headsets that you just put over your head,
Speaker:like a gaming headset or anything, or I
Speaker:think they're like the telemarketing headset, if that's
Speaker:still a thing, so much better.
Speaker:And then we don't have to worry about
Speaker:all this stuff.
Speaker:Now, I'm not saying that it's not possible.
Speaker:It's just, it's a trap and it's dangerous
Speaker:and you'll end up spending a lot more
Speaker:money to get that professional value sound than
Speaker:you would if you just took the shortcut
Speaker:and wore a headset.
Speaker:I'm going to stop ranting about that now.
Speaker:Okay, what's next?
Speaker:Oh, have a buddy.
Speaker:Buddies help.
Speaker:Buddies help with accountability.
Speaker:Buddies help with, you watch your podcast back
Speaker:and you go, oh my goodness, that was
Speaker:terrible.
Speaker:I cannot show that to anybody ever.
Speaker:They watch it and they go, what are
Speaker:you talking about?
Speaker:That was great.
Speaker:You are not your own, well, you are
Speaker:your own best critic, your own worst critic.
Speaker:You know what I mean?
Speaker:You are not an objective person to watch
Speaker:your videos or to listen to your sound
Speaker:and make a decision about whether or not
Speaker:that is good to go out to the
Speaker:public.
Speaker:You are not the person to make that
Speaker:decision.
Speaker:If you have a coach or a buddy
Speaker:or a group of buddies who can help
Speaker:you out with that, please, they have to
Speaker:be honest because they do have to tell
Speaker:you if it is not okay.
Speaker:You do need to have people you can
Speaker:trust, but launching the network with six other
Speaker:people who could listen to each other and
Speaker:could calm the insecurities and the nerves and
Speaker:keep each other excited, do it with a
Speaker:buddy.
Speaker:It is so much more fun.
Speaker:It keeps you accountable.
Speaker:It keeps the energy up.
Speaker:It helps you overcome your insecurities.
Speaker:It gives you an objective eye on something
Speaker:that you are never going to be objective
Speaker:about.
Speaker:So if you can, do it with a
Speaker:buddy.
Speaker:What's next?
Speaker:This is a very simple one.
Speaker:No wobbly chairs.
Speaker:You see I'm on one of these.
Speaker:Then I hit my desk as well.
Speaker:You see these chairs, these swivel chairs?
Speaker:Make your life easy.
Speaker:And if you have a swivel chair in
Speaker:your studio, have a stool or just a
Speaker:normal chair that doesn't swivel nearby so that
Speaker:when you record your podcast, if you are
Speaker:sitting down, if you record your podcast, sit
Speaker:on a chair that doesn't move.
Speaker:It is just so much easier than training
Speaker:yourself out of moving.
Speaker:If you're one of those people who moves
Speaker:on your swivel chair, it is almost impossible
Speaker:to train yourself out of doing that.
Speaker:It's easier just to use a different chair.
Speaker:Similarly, if you're the type of person who
Speaker:shifts from foot to foot, this is going
Speaker:to be a thing to deal with.
Speaker:Maybe something that I do, which is a
Speaker:bit weird.
Speaker:I either don't wear any shoes and I
Speaker:bend my knees quite a lot to sit
Speaker:into my pelvis so that I'm not as
Speaker:tall as I normally am.
Speaker:I'm kind of almost doing a half squat,
Speaker:but it helps me stay grounded.
Speaker:Or I'll wear heels so that I can
Speaker:very consciously bend my knees.
Speaker:Otherwise, I also do this and it's going
Speaker:from side to side, bobbing from side to
Speaker:side or bobbing up and down.
Speaker:It's extremely distracting.
Speaker:So don't do that.
Speaker:Obviously, that's only important on video.
Speaker:No one can tell if you're swiveling from
Speaker:side to side on sound unless you're not
Speaker:wearing a headset because then your voice is
Speaker:going to go away and then come back
Speaker:and then go away and then come back.
Speaker:And that's going to be very noticeable.
Speaker:All right, what's next?
Speaker:Oh, I love this one.
Speaker:Keep going if you mess up.
Speaker:There's a couple of reasons for this.
Speaker:Firstly, you actually don't know how bad your
Speaker:mess up is until you watch it back
Speaker:afterwards.
Speaker:You might flub a word and think it's
Speaker:the end of the world.
Speaker:And then you listen to it later and
Speaker:you're like, that's just totally normal.
Speaker:That is how we speak in normal speech.
Speaker:So keep going.
Speaker:There's a couple of reasons for this.
Speaker:A, you need to remind your nervous system
Speaker:that a mistake is not a big deal
Speaker:and that you can keep going.
Speaker:Your nervous system, if you stop every time
Speaker:you make a mistake, you are training yourself
Speaker:into getting flustered and making a big deal
Speaker:out of things.
Speaker:Even if you don't use that take, you
Speaker:don't need to use it, but do finish
Speaker:it.
Speaker:Even if you don't use it, it really
Speaker:trains if the act of speaking is so
Speaker:important and training yourself into being able to
Speaker:keep going, even when you do make a
Speaker:mistake, training yourself to recover.
Speaker:That is a skill all in its own
Speaker:right, and it only comes through practice.
Speaker:So if you stop every time you mess
Speaker:up, you are sabotaging yourself and you are
Speaker:training yourself into a really bad habit that
Speaker:is difficult to get out of.
Speaker:So that's the first reason.
Speaker:The other reason is you don't know how
Speaker:big a deal it is.
Speaker:So maybe you think, okay, well, I'm going
Speaker:to throw this takeaway, but you finish it
Speaker:because you're doing well.
Speaker:You're doing best practices and you finish it.
Speaker:You watch it back.
Speaker:You're like, oh, actually I'm not going to
Speaker:do it again.
Speaker:That was perfect.
Speaker:Good enough.
Speaker:Because that flub wasn't nearly as big a
Speaker:deal as you thought it was.
Speaker:And sometimes those flubs can be magic.
Speaker:They can be what breaks the tension or
Speaker:it makes you relatable or what lights you
Speaker:up because you, oh my goodness, I'm so
Speaker:silly.
Speaker:And then you have a laugh and then
Speaker:everyone laughs with you.
Speaker:Everyone who isn't with you because you're all
Speaker:alone, but everyone who's listening will have a
Speaker:little giggle with you later in the comfort
Speaker:of their own homes or cars or walks
Speaker:or wherever they're listening to you.
Speaker:And it can really be a relatable moment.
Speaker:It can be a connection moment.
Speaker:So there's that.
Speaker:And then there's the third reason.
Speaker:Oh, the third reason is if you are
Speaker:creating video content, if you have 10 takes
Speaker:of up to the first half and only
Speaker:one good take of the second half, if
Speaker:you need to be edited for any reason,
Speaker:if you are creating content that, you know,
Speaker:you're editing in and out and maybe you're
Speaker:splicing it around.
Speaker:If you only have one piece of the
Speaker:final piece of content and 10 pieces of
Speaker:the first piece of content, that makes you
Speaker:a nightmare to edit.
Speaker:You need to have multiple takes of the
Speaker:beginning, the middle and the end for your
Speaker:poor editor to stitch things together.
Speaker:You may have said it perfectly the second
Speaker:time at the end, but the first time
Speaker:at the beginning, and then we can stitch
Speaker:those together.
Speaker:And that might be depending on the type
Speaker:of video you're doing.
Speaker:If it's a podcast, I try to edit
Speaker:as little as possible.
Speaker:But if you're doing content creation, if you're
Speaker:doing some sort of educational content, we're going
Speaker:to be cutting in and out with slides
Speaker:anyway.
Speaker:So you may as well choose the favorite
Speaker:piece.
Speaker:You know, it doesn't really matter at that
Speaker:point.
Speaker:So depending on what type of content you're
Speaker:making, it's a really good habit.
Speaker:It's best practice to have more than one
Speaker:version of all of the pieces of your
Speaker:talk, not just the beginning.
Speaker:Because that's we tend to get very beginning
Speaker:heavy.
Speaker:Oh my goodness, I need a different pair
Speaker:of glasses for reading.
Speaker:Also, my handwriting is terrible.
Speaker:Number seven.
Speaker:I think that was seven.
Speaker:Number seven is imperfect is perfect.
Speaker:That kind of ties into what I just
Speaker:said.
Speaker:No one wants robots.
Speaker:We can listen to AI.
Speaker:And oh my goodness, am I listening to
Speaker:a lot of AI these days because I'm
Speaker:really interested in the content and a real
Speaker:human being couldn't be bothered to read it.
Speaker:So I have to suffer through this AI
Speaker:garbage.
Speaker:Please.
Speaker:Imperfect is so much better.
Speaker:Your personality shines through.
Speaker:Yes, you make mistakes.
Speaker:Yes, you have aborted sentences.
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Occasionally you say I'm in awe.
Speaker:It is all so much better.
Speaker:It is a relief compared to these kind
Speaker:of fake perfect voices.
Speaker:But really, they're not very interesting.
Speaker:And it's just, it just frustrates me so
Speaker:much.
Speaker:Human is better.
Speaker:Imperfect is perfect.
Speaker:This is what we need.
Speaker:This is what we want.
Speaker:We want to connect to you.
Speaker:We have to have some imperfection in order
Speaker:for us to listen to that beautiful chaos
Speaker:in order for our ears to pick up
Speaker:that sound.
Speaker:So if you're feeling like, oh, but it's
Speaker:not perfect.
Speaker:It is.
Speaker:It is perfect.
Speaker:Unless you are saying something that is factually
Speaker:incorrect.
Speaker:If you have said something that you don't
Speaker:believe or is factually wrong.
Speaker:If it's just a little bit messy, put
Speaker:it out there anyway, because people are going
Speaker:to love it.
Speaker:We secretly love mess.
Speaker:We do.
Speaker:It's part of how we connect.
Speaker:It's who we are.
Speaker:And we love to see that people are
Speaker:succeeding and out there and doing things without
Speaker:having to be perfect.
Speaker:Because one of the biggest lies that we
Speaker:have been sold as humans is that we
Speaker:have to be perfect all the time.
Speaker:It's garbage.
Speaker:There's no such thing as a perfect human
Speaker:anyway.
Speaker:There's no such thing as a perfect anything
Speaker:really when it comes to humans.
Speaker:So why we're striving for it, I don't
Speaker:know.
Speaker:But let that go right now.
Speaker:Let that idea of perfection go.
Speaker:High standards?
Speaker:Yes.
Speaker:Absolutely.
Speaker:I have very high standards.
Speaker:I hardly ever meet them.
Speaker:But they're there.
Speaker:I grow into them slowly.
Speaker:Have high standards.
Speaker:But even if you don't meet your standards,
Speaker:submit it anyway.
Speaker:Put it out there in the world anyway,
Speaker:because the only way that you are going
Speaker:to improve, the only way that you are
Speaker:going to grow is if you do the
Speaker:thing.
Speaker:And I know that that's hard to hear.
Speaker:But you can do it.
Speaker:And I know that you can do it
Speaker:because I have just watched six other podcasters
Speaker:on five other podcasts do it with me
Speaker:over the last two months.
Speaker:And oh, my goodness, it has been an
Speaker:honor.
Speaker:I was very chaotic.
Speaker:And I was very honest.
Speaker:But I didn't really know what I was
Speaker:doing.
Speaker:But we were going to do it anyway.
Speaker:And they were so generous and understanding and
Speaker:patient with me as I worked things out.
Speaker:And they are still, we are still working
Speaker:out a few kinks in the network.
Speaker:And they're still being very patient and generous
Speaker:and lovely.
Speaker:But oh, my goodness, have they grown.
Speaker:And just watching the self-esteem that comes
Speaker:with having a platform and knowing that you
Speaker:have a space to express yourself and the
Speaker:people who want to listen to you will
Speaker:come and listen.
Speaker:This isn't like, oh, you must listen to
Speaker:me.
Speaker:Podcast is a beautiful thing because you're just
Speaker:inviting people in.
Speaker:And the wrong people aren't going to come
Speaker:to you.
Speaker:So you don't have to worry about it.
Speaker:It has been such an honor to watch
Speaker:them grow.
Speaker:The amount of self-esteem and their speaking
Speaker:skills have all improved.
Speaker:If you haven't been listening to the people
Speaker:on the Inspired Speaker Network, go check out
Speaker:some of them now because they are powerful,
Speaker:powerful people.
Speaker:And they have really beautiful messages to share.
Speaker:It has been such an honor and such
Speaker:a joy to go through this process with
Speaker:them.
Speaker:And we're only at the beginning.
Speaker:We're only at the beginning.
Speaker:I am only in episode one of season
Speaker:three.
Speaker:I'm so excited.
Speaker:So if you have any doubts about who
Speaker:you are and what you have to say
Speaker:and whether or not someone wants to listen
Speaker:to it, please listen to the rest of
Speaker:these interviews.
Speaker:Listen to me.
Speaker:Listen to the other people in the podcast.
Speaker:Get inspired by them and let that inspiration
Speaker:carry you into the courage of sharing your
Speaker:message.
Speaker:If you're still scared, call me.
Speaker:We'll have a conversation.
Speaker:I am never scared to chat to someone
Speaker:who is maybe not sure about who they
Speaker:are or what their message is.
Speaker:Maybe I can help.
Speaker:Maybe I can help boost your self-esteem.
Speaker:Maybe I can give you some tools or
Speaker:some recommendations.
Speaker:Maybe I can just give you a little
Speaker:bit of encouragement.
Speaker:The world needs more human voices right now.
Speaker:The world needs your voice.
Speaker:So I hope you enjoy these industry insights.
Speaker:I'd love to hear what you have to
Speaker:say about them, actually.
Speaker:If you have any comments or questions or
Speaker:suggestions, please reach out, let me know.
Speaker:And if you have any curiosity about the
Speaker:Inspired Speaker Network, I'll make sure that there
Speaker:is a link in the show notes for
Speaker:you to go and check it out.
