7 things I Learned About Podcasting | S3E001

7 things I Learned About Podcasting | S3E001

In this episode, Danielle kicks off a new season of industry insights by sharing seven lessons she learned while launching a podcast network and helping new hosts get started. From setting firm deadlines and ditching the script to choosing practical audio equipment, creating flexible content and embracing imperfection, she explores what actually helps podcasters and online speakers connect with their audience.

It’s a practical, candid look at why authenticity, personality, and getting started matter more than polished perfection.

Highlights:

Natural speech includes mistakes, unfinished sentences and unexpected moments. Rather than editing all of that humanity out, let your personality come through. The episode’s central message is that connection and authenticity matter more than sounding polished or robotic.

  • Set firm deadlines and stop waiting until you feel ready
  • Your audience can always tell when you’re reading
  • You don’t need expensive podcast equipment to sound good
  • Create content with flexibility rather than chasing one perfect take
  • Imperfection is part of what makes people worth listening to

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Danielle Benzon has devoted her life to exploring the expressiveness, agility, and power of the voice-body instrument. Her journey began in classical theatre and took her around the world before she founded the Inspired Speaker Academy. Now she draws on that experience to help speakers, professionals, and business owners to own and embody their message, fall wildly in love with speaking, and transform their nerves so that every word they speak vibrates with purpose, truth, and self-celebration.

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If you're tired of hiding your brilliance behind

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stage fright, scripts, or playing it safe, then

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you are in the perfect place.

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This is the Inspired Speaker Podcast, and I

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am your host, Danielle Benzon, professional rebel, voice

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coach, and your guide to speaking with confidence,

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charisma, and zero BS.

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Around here, we don't chase perfection.

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We choose connection.

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So grab a hot beverage, warm up those

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vocal cords, and get ready to fall wildly

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in love with the sound of your voice.

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Let's get inspired.

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I have to say, I am really appreciating

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these six episode seasons that we've been doing

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on the Inspired Speaker Network.

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I know that this isn't exactly what Michelle

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Abraham meant when she said you could do

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whatever you want and do a season at

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a time, which is what really involved me

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on the idea of doing a podcast in

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the first place.

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But oh my goodness, I am loving it.

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I love the freedom of being able to

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kind of shift focus a little bit every

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six weeks.

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I love the idea that I could take

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a break if I wanted to, although to

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be honest, I don't think I ever will

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again.

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But it sparks my creativity and my curiosity

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in a way that I think thinking about

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the podcast as one long thing, even a

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year season, which I know is what most

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people think of when they think of a

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season, even a year season would feel very

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heavy for me and really, oh, how am

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I going to do the same thing every

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week for a year?

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I'm just loving the six-week season idea.

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So I'm running with it and I apologize

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if it's not.

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Do I apologize if it's not normal?

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I don't.

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I don't apologize if it's not normal.

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I'm loving it and I am embracing it.

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And hey, there's nothing normal about me.

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So there we go.

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Today is episode one of season three.

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We are doing industry insights this season.

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So as you may have noticed, I launched

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a podcast network recently or not recently, depending

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on where you're listening, when you're listening to

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this, but recently in time right now, as

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of recording, we launched our network on the

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4th of August, 2026.

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And the idea came to me around June,

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2026.

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And we did it all in about a

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month, maybe five weeks.

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And it was an experience.

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And during those five weeks, I actually ended

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up interviewing quite a few people who make

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money doing podcasts in one way, shape or

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form.

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They work with podcasters, they do bookings.

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I interviewed someone else who is also a

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producer, a podcast producer.

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And so I have all these interviews and

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I wanted to put them together in a

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season, kind of an intensive educational season for

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people who are looking to do their own

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podcasts, not necessarily starting your own network.

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I'm not sure if I would recommend that

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to everybody.

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It is a lot of work depending on

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how you want to do it.

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But definitely, I think having a podcast is

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such an amazing machine for your business, for

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your soul, for your message.

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There are so many wonderful things that come

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out of it.

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And yes, I know that a lot of

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people have podcasts now compared to in the

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old days, everybody and a dog has their

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own podcast now.

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And there's such a low barrier to entry,

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but that is a wonderful thing.

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Think about what Netflix did for television.

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Think about podcasts.

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Anyone can make a podcast.

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And yes, the production value is going to

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vary greatly depending on who's doing it and

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how they're doing it.

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But the level to entry, the barrier to

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entry is so low that it is allowing

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more diverse voices than ever before.

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And also, it's allowing a kind of equalization

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of the market in a way that is

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wonderful because you get to be your unique

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flavor of you and people get to sort

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and get to decide who they're listening to.

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And so, that diversity can really be in

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your favor.

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You don't need to be big and flashy

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and fancy to get a loyal following.

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You just need to be really specific and

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really real and maybe, I hope, authentic and

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kind of niche down.

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And I don't mean in the kind of

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traditional way of niching.

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I work with moms between 40 and 42

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who have 7.5 kids.

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A bit of ridiculous niche there.

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But it doesn't need to be a niche

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like that.

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But niche through your values, through your interests,

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through who you are, through how you show

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up.

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And that uniqueness calls to certain people.

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And that is how we get to decide

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who we listen to.

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So, I think it's a fantastic thing.

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And I am loving running the network.

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I am enjoying meeting new people.

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I'm enjoying interviewing folks.

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I'm loving watching all of the podcasts.

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I personally watch every single podcast that goes

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live on my network.

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And so, I'm loving watching all the other

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podcast hosts and what they're doing and who

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they're interviewing.

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It is so rewarding.

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And before I share with you all of

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the interviews that I've done, this won't be

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all of the interviews.

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You're going to get five because it's a

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six-episode season and this first episode is

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just me.

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So, you're going to get five of the

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industry insight interviews that I've done.

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And then I'll do another one when I

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have another six.

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And I'm really excited to share this with

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you because there are some amazing insights in

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these interviews that I'm not applying all of

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them yet to my podcast and to my

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network.

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But I have a long to-do list

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based on these interviews that I am going

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to be implementing over the next few months.

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There's so much value in these interviews around

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what to do as a guest, how to

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monetize the experience if you're a guest, how

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to monetize the experience if you're a host,

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how to build relationships, how to approach people

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who maybe you're not sure if they would

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listen to you because they're so experienced and

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they've got so many followers.

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There's so much information here.

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We talk about some tech stuff with Chen

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There is so much valuable information in this

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season that I really, really want you to

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absorb like a sponge.

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You may have to watch a couple of

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these episodes over and over and take some

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extra notes.

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I know I did.

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But before we get to that, I just

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wanted to share a few things that I've

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learned in launching a podcast network because I

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have coached now six people launch their podcast,

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not six people.

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Well, yeah, Tammy and Shannon are two, so

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six.

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Five podcasts, six people.

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I coached them from zero to running their

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podcast, knowing what to say.

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And I was there in the room helping

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them out in their first episodes.

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And there are some things that I have

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learned that are non-negotiable.

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And I would like to share them with

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you.

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If you are thinking of starting a podcast

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or if you are thinking of expanding your

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reach and starting to speak as a guest

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on podcasts or summits, these apply.

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These rules that I have learned, these lessons

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that I've learned, apply on any kind of

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online speaking situation.

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They even apply sometimes to offline speaking situations,

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but that is a different genre.

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So we're going to keep this to podcasting,

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podcast guesting, podcast hosting, podcast guesting, summits, interviews,

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online content creation.

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I'm not a huge kind of TikTok short

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person, but it might apply to some of

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those as well.

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So I've written them down and I have

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seven.

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So here we go.

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The first one is you take as long

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as you have.

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We did this whole thing in five weeks

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and we got it done and I had

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no idea how we were going to do

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it.

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But my theory was if we set ourselves

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an impossible goal and we didn't hit it,

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then we just extend it.

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But I wanted to see if we could

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do it in five weeks.

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And I did my best to set us

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up.

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We set deadlines.

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Sometimes we hit them, sometimes we didn't, but

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we had enough give to hit the final

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deadline of the launch date, even though we

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didn't always hit our internal deadlines.

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Because also when you have six podcasters submitting

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information, some people are a little bit early

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and some people are a little bit late,

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kind of evens out.

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So what I found was everyone waited until

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the deadline to submit artwork, music decisions, name

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decisions, oh my goodness, even afterwards.

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So I also had to set a time

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for this is the deadline for making the

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decision.

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And then after that, you can change your

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mind, but only after this time.

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I had to create deadlines around boundaries around

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each of those things.

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Because the thing is, if we are procrastinating,

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if we are scared, if we are trying

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to get it perfect, we will take as

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long as we are given.

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If I had given those podcasters six months

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to come up with the name of their

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podcast and their target audience, it would have

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taken them six months.

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If I had given them six weeks, it

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would have taken them six weeks.

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It's amazing how we do.

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We just fill that time.

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I know there's a name for this.

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I have forgotten what the name for that

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is, but I know there's a name for

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this phenomenon.

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And that was just really reinforced.

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So what I would suggest, if you are

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starting, instead of saying, well, I'll do it

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when I'm ready, or I'll just do this

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much, set yourself a deadline.

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You know what's realistic for you.

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If you have help, it can be done

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in a month.

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But I did a lot of the work.

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I did a lot of the organizing and

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reminding and that kind of thing.

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So you may not be able to do

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it in a month.

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But whatever you do, set yourself a deadline

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and do your darndest to hit it.

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And then also set yourself a deadline, a

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point of no return deadline.

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So maybe you set yourself a deadline of

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I want to have all my material recorded

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by this date, and it doesn't get there.

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And you say, okay, well, this is the

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launch date.

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So I have to have everything recorded by

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that date.

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And if I don't like it, I can

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redo it.

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But I can only redo it after all

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these other things have been done.

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So maybe once everything's up and running, and

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I've got the next season scheduled, then I

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can go back and fix and edit or

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I'm going to redo the intro or I'm

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going to redo the podcast, the episode image,

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whatever it is that you're not happy with.

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Don't only give yourself a deadline to complete

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it, but give yourself a point of no

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return.

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I have to submit it no matter how

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unhappy I am with it.

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And I can change it later.

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Everything can be changed later.

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Everything can be updated later.

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It's a bit more work sometimes, but usually

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you can change anything retroactively.

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So give yourself that done is better than

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good deadline, because otherwise it will just take

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forever.

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And it will just go on and on

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and on.

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Number two, I'm looking at my notes.

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And this is hilarious, because this is number

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two.

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We can always tell when you are reading.

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Always.

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I don't care how sneaky you think you

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are.

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I don't care if your notes are right

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up there next to your camera.

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I don't care if you've got one of

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those fancy teleprompters.

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We can tell.

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We can always tell.

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Even if you're a good reader, sometimes we

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won't mind.

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If you're a really good reader, we may

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not mind that you're reading.

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If you're really good and you manage to

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stay connected with us at the same time,

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we may decide that your connection is so

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strong that we don't mind that you're reading,

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but your audience can always tell when you're

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reading.

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And I'm talking about audio-only podcasts, too.

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It's not just about your eyes going left

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to right.

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Your vocal tone actually changes.

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You have a different voice when you are

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reading compared to when you are speaking.

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And even if you are reading really well,

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your voice is different from candid speech.

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Not necessarily worse.

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If you're a really good reader, it may

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not be worse.

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It may just be different.

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But it is different and we can hear

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it.

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And the more AI tries to take over

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our jobs and our world, it tries to.

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It's trying to.

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It's not trying to.

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It just is.

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But the more it is replacing humans, the

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more that predictable, good reading isn't going to

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matter anymore because AI could do it.

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The only thing that makes you different, that

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makes you separate, that makes you special, that

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makes you exciting is your candid speech.

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And the human ear does react differently to

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that kind of chaos of, I don't know

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what I'm going to say next.

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That unscripted, unrehearsed, candid speech sounds different.

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When you are real and you are raw

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and you are alive, there is an unpredictability

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to your speech that cannot be replicated.

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And that is going to become more and

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more important as the years go on.

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So, learn to speak without a script now.

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And if you're curious about being scriptless, talk

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to me because that's my speciality.

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What's number three?

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Oh, I'm getting old.

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I can't read that here.

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Oh, my goodness.

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In my naivete, just like everybody else, I

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thought that the best type of mic was

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a kind of fancy podcaster table mic.

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This is not true.

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Well, it's kind of true, but it comes

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with a caveat.

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A headset microphone is the best option if

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you are doing podcasts on a budget.

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They're cheaper and they don't require a full

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sound studio in order for them to work.

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The mic is right next to your mouth,

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which, okay, can be dangerous.

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And I do, I'm just going to move

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mine away from my mouth.

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Just noticed it's quite close to my mouth

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now.

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If it's right in front of your mouth,

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that can be a real problem because then

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you catch all the P's and T's and

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things.

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So, you do want the microphone to be

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a bit further away.

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I actually really love, I've got, ah, where

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is it?

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I have one of these little hooky over

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the ear ones that I really love too.

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And then the microphone ends up being about

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halfway down your cheek, which is even better.

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I love those little wireless ones.

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They don't always play well with my tech.

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So, sometimes I just do the wired mic,

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but a headset mic is your best bet

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unless you are able to deal with all

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of the traps that come with a fancy

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tabletop microphone.

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So, first off, the fact that it's on

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your table is a problem because your hands

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are close to the table and your shirt

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and your jewelry and all sorts of other

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things.

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Your computer fan is closer to the microphone

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than your mouth.

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This is a problem because all of that

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ambient sound gets prioritized over your voice.

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So, that's the first problem with a tabletop

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mic.

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The second problem is, of course, you're probably

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touching your desk without noticing.

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You're rustling your notes.

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Well, hopefully not.

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Hopefully, you don't have notes.

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But you're touching things.

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You're fiddling with things.

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You hit the microphone occasionally.

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So many dangers.

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It's perilous, that desk microphone.

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Now, if you put it up on a

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stand above you and you have it coming

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from above you and towards your mouth, that

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is, of course, much better.

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You're much less likely to hit it and

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you can actually position it in exactly the

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right place.

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The danger is still that you are not

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in a sound booth.

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You are not necessarily wearing headphones because a

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lot of people think that they can get

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away with having a microphone and not headphones.

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You cannot do this because this microphone is

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going to pick up anything, any echoes in

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the room.

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So, as soon as you have a guest

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and your sound is coming out of your

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computer speakers hitting the wall around you, hitting

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your microphone, all sorts of horrible echoes are

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going to happen.

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Zoom does an amazing job of lessening those

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echoes, but it can only do so much.

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It's not magic.

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And I think Riverside actually also has an

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echo cancellation, but still, it's not magic.

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And chances are, it's going to ruin your

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sound.

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So, even if you have a desk mic

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or a mic that's hanging over you, if

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you have a traditional microphone, you still need

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to wear earphones because the sound of your

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interviewer, interviewee, the sound of your interviewee, your

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guest, that needs to come in through your

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ears and not bounce around the room.

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So, I know they look cool.

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And hey, if you want to have one

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as a prop, go ahead, be my guest.

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But it's going to look a bit funny

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if you're wearing headphones and you have one

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as a prop.

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That's going to look a bit weird.

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But please, before you go out and invest

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a fortune in one of these fancy microphones,

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please be aware the room that you are

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in is much more important to your sound

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quality than your microphone.

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If you have just one of these cheap

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headsets that you just put over your head,

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like a gaming headset or anything, or I

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think they're like the telemarketing headset, if that's

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still a thing, so much better.

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And then we don't have to worry about

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all this stuff.

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Now, I'm not saying that it's not possible.

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It's just, it's a trap and it's dangerous

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and you'll end up spending a lot more

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money to get that professional value sound than

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you would if you just took the shortcut

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and wore a headset.

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I'm going to stop ranting about that now.

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Okay, what's next?

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Oh, have a buddy.

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Buddies help.

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Buddies help with accountability.

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Buddies help with, you watch your podcast back

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and you go, oh my goodness, that was

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terrible.

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I cannot show that to anybody ever.

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They watch it and they go, what are

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you talking about?

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That was great.

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You are not your own, well, you are

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your own best critic, your own worst critic.

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You know what I mean?

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You are not an objective person to watch

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your videos or to listen to your sound

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and make a decision about whether or not

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that is good to go out to the

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public.

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You are not the person to make that

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decision.

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If you have a coach or a buddy

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or a group of buddies who can help

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you out with that, please, they have to

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be honest because they do have to tell

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you if it is not okay.

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You do need to have people you can

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trust, but launching the network with six other

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people who could listen to each other and

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could calm the insecurities and the nerves and

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keep each other excited, do it with a

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buddy.

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It is so much more fun.

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It keeps you accountable.

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It keeps the energy up.

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It helps you overcome your insecurities.

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It gives you an objective eye on something

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that you are never going to be objective

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about.

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So if you can, do it with a

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buddy.

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What's next?

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This is a very simple one.

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No wobbly chairs.

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You see I'm on one of these.

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Then I hit my desk as well.

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You see these chairs, these swivel chairs?

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Make your life easy.

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And if you have a swivel chair in

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your studio, have a stool or just a

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normal chair that doesn't swivel nearby so that

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when you record your podcast, if you are

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sitting down, if you record your podcast, sit

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on a chair that doesn't move.

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It is just so much easier than training

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yourself out of moving.

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If you're one of those people who moves

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on your swivel chair, it is almost impossible

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to train yourself out of doing that.

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It's easier just to use a different chair.

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Similarly, if you're the type of person who

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shifts from foot to foot, this is going

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to be a thing to deal with.

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Maybe something that I do, which is a

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bit weird.

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I either don't wear any shoes and I

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bend my knees quite a lot to sit

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into my pelvis so that I'm not as

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tall as I normally am.

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I'm kind of almost doing a half squat,

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but it helps me stay grounded.

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Or I'll wear heels so that I can

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very consciously bend my knees.

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Otherwise, I also do this and it's going

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from side to side, bobbing from side to

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side or bobbing up and down.

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It's extremely distracting.

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So don't do that.

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Obviously, that's only important on video.

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No one can tell if you're swiveling from

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side to side on sound unless you're not

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wearing a headset because then your voice is

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going to go away and then come back

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and then go away and then come back.

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And that's going to be very noticeable.

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All right, what's next?

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Oh, I love this one.

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Keep going if you mess up.

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There's a couple of reasons for this.

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Firstly, you actually don't know how bad your

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mess up is until you watch it back

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afterwards.

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You might flub a word and think it's

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the end of the world.

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And then you listen to it later and

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you're like, that's just totally normal.

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That is how we speak in normal speech.

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So keep going.

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There's a couple of reasons for this.

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A, you need to remind your nervous system

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that a mistake is not a big deal

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and that you can keep going.

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Your nervous system, if you stop every time

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you make a mistake, you are training yourself

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into getting flustered and making a big deal

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out of things.

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Even if you don't use that take, you

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don't need to use it, but do finish

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it.

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Even if you don't use it, it really

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trains if the act of speaking is so

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important and training yourself into being able to

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keep going, even when you do make a

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mistake, training yourself to recover.

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That is a skill all in its own

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right, and it only comes through practice.

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So if you stop every time you mess

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up, you are sabotaging yourself and you are

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training yourself into a really bad habit that

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is difficult to get out of.

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So that's the first reason.

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The other reason is you don't know how

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big a deal it is.

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So maybe you think, okay, well, I'm going

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to throw this takeaway, but you finish it

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because you're doing well.

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You're doing best practices and you finish it.

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You watch it back.

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You're like, oh, actually I'm not going to

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do it again.

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That was perfect.

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Good enough.

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Because that flub wasn't nearly as big a

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deal as you thought it was.

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And sometimes those flubs can be magic.

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They can be what breaks the tension or

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it makes you relatable or what lights you

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up because you, oh my goodness, I'm so

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silly.

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And then you have a laugh and then

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everyone laughs with you.

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Everyone who isn't with you because you're all

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alone, but everyone who's listening will have a

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little giggle with you later in the comfort

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of their own homes or cars or walks

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or wherever they're listening to you.

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And it can really be a relatable moment.

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It can be a connection moment.

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So there's that.

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And then there's the third reason.

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Oh, the third reason is if you are

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creating video content, if you have 10 takes

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of up to the first half and only

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one good take of the second half, if

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you need to be edited for any reason,

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if you are creating content that, you know,

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you're editing in and out and maybe you're

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splicing it around.

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If you only have one piece of the

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final piece of content and 10 pieces of

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the first piece of content, that makes you

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a nightmare to edit.

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You need to have multiple takes of the

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beginning, the middle and the end for your

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poor editor to stitch things together.

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You may have said it perfectly the second

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time at the end, but the first time

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at the beginning, and then we can stitch

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those together.

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And that might be depending on the type

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of video you're doing.

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If it's a podcast, I try to edit

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as little as possible.

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But if you're doing content creation, if you're

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doing some sort of educational content, we're going

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to be cutting in and out with slides

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anyway.

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So you may as well choose the favorite

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piece.

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You know, it doesn't really matter at that

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point.

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So depending on what type of content you're

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making, it's a really good habit.

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It's best practice to have more than one

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version of all of the pieces of your

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talk, not just the beginning.

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Because that's we tend to get very beginning

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heavy.

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Oh my goodness, I need a different pair

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of glasses for reading.

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Also, my handwriting is terrible.

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Number seven.

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I think that was seven.

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Number seven is imperfect is perfect.

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That kind of ties into what I just

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said.

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No one wants robots.

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We can listen to AI.

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And oh my goodness, am I listening to

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a lot of AI these days because I'm

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really interested in the content and a real

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human being couldn't be bothered to read it.

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So I have to suffer through this AI

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garbage.

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Please.

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Imperfect is so much better.

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Your personality shines through.

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Yes, you make mistakes.

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Yes, you have aborted sentences.

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Yes.

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Occasionally you say I'm in awe.

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It is all so much better.

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It is a relief compared to these kind

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of fake perfect voices.

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But really, they're not very interesting.

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And it's just, it just frustrates me so

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much.

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Human is better.

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Imperfect is perfect.

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This is what we need.

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This is what we want.

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We want to connect to you.

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We have to have some imperfection in order

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for us to listen to that beautiful chaos

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in order for our ears to pick up

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that sound.

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So if you're feeling like, oh, but it's

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not perfect.

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It is.

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It is perfect.

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Unless you are saying something that is factually

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incorrect.

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If you have said something that you don't

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believe or is factually wrong.

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If it's just a little bit messy, put

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it out there anyway, because people are going

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to love it.

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We secretly love mess.

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We do.

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It's part of how we connect.

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It's who we are.

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And we love to see that people are

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succeeding and out there and doing things without

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having to be perfect.

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Because one of the biggest lies that we

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have been sold as humans is that we

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have to be perfect all the time.

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It's garbage.

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There's no such thing as a perfect human

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anyway.

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There's no such thing as a perfect anything

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really when it comes to humans.

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So why we're striving for it, I don't

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know.

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But let that go right now.

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Let that idea of perfection go.

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High standards?

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Yes.

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Absolutely.

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I have very high standards.

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I hardly ever meet them.

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But they're there.

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I grow into them slowly.

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Have high standards.

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But even if you don't meet your standards,

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submit it anyway.

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Put it out there in the world anyway,

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because the only way that you are going

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to improve, the only way that you are

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going to grow is if you do the

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thing.

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And I know that that's hard to hear.

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But you can do it.

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And I know that you can do it

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because I have just watched six other podcasters

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on five other podcasts do it with me

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over the last two months.

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And oh, my goodness, it has been an

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honor.

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I was very chaotic.

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And I was very honest.

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But I didn't really know what I was

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doing.

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But we were going to do it anyway.

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And they were so generous and understanding and

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patient with me as I worked things out.

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And they are still, we are still working

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out a few kinks in the network.

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And they're still being very patient and generous

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and lovely.

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But oh, my goodness, have they grown.

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And just watching the self-esteem that comes

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with having a platform and knowing that you

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have a space to express yourself and the

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people who want to listen to you will

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come and listen.

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This isn't like, oh, you must listen to

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me.

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Podcast is a beautiful thing because you're just

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inviting people in.

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And the wrong people aren't going to come

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to you.

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So you don't have to worry about it.

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It has been such an honor to watch

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them grow.

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The amount of self-esteem and their speaking

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skills have all improved.

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If you haven't been listening to the people

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on the Inspired Speaker Network, go check out

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some of them now because they are powerful,

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powerful people.

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And they have really beautiful messages to share.

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It has been such an honor and such

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a joy to go through this process with

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them.

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And we're only at the beginning.

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We're only at the beginning.

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I am only in episode one of season

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three.

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I'm so excited.

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So if you have any doubts about who

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you are and what you have to say

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and whether or not someone wants to listen

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to it, please listen to the rest of

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these interviews.

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Listen to me.

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Listen to the other people in the podcast.

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Get inspired by them and let that inspiration

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carry you into the courage of sharing your

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message.

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If you're still scared, call me.

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We'll have a conversation.

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I am never scared to chat to someone

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who is maybe not sure about who they

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are or what their message is.

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Maybe I can help.

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Maybe I can help boost your self-esteem.

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Maybe I can give you some tools or

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some recommendations.

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Maybe I can just give you a little

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bit of encouragement.

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The world needs more human voices right now.

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The world needs your voice.

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So I hope you enjoy these industry insights.

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I'd love to hear what you have to

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say about them, actually.

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If you have any comments or questions or

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suggestions, please reach out, let me know.

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And if you have any curiosity about the

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Inspired Speaker Network, I'll make sure that there

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is a link in the show notes for

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you to go and check it out.